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  • Can You Bully Me After Postpartum? Thanks

    Can You Bully Me After Postpartum? Thanks

    Within one year, I experienced giving birth, becoming a mom, postpartum healing and emotional abuse. That last one, the emotional abuse, was the one that really seemed to suck the life out of me during that year. Sleep deprivation, learning to be a parent, recovering from giving birth, postpartum, you name it, was all a…

  • Goodbye People Pleaser, Hello Me

    Goodbye People Pleaser, Hello Me

    I used to be like Ella Enchanted. I used to be such a people pleaser, it makes me sick. I was like this until recently, until I was forced to end the people pleasing tendencies in me. This transformation has not felt easy or beautiful, but it has changed me in ways that I needed…

  • The Village (of Haters)

    The Village (of Haters)

    I couldn’t count all of the times I heard, “it takes a village,” while I was pregnant. I specifically remember one time when I was around five months pregnant and some in-laws were talking about how we should live closer to them. I don’t remember specifics besides one person who looked at me intently and…

  • Happy Merry Guilt Trip

    Happy Merry Guilt Trip

    It was my birthday a couple of days ago and I received a text that was kind of annoying to me. I’m not going to directly say what it was, but it was not a warm happy birthday well wish. I wasn’t shocked. Although, I have blocked most of the people by now who have…

  • Trauma and Healing Thoughts

    Trauma and Healing Thoughts

    I don’t want to be anything like the guy in Baby Reindeer. I just recently watched that show on Netflix and I was disturbed. I applaud his honesty with telling his story, although I hated the ending. It struck a nerve in me that he became so obsessed with what happened to him and why…

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